How do you find it, or how do you handle it? I was told this week that I am too picky.... How do I take that if I want a good man to grow with. Being picky to me means you have been through some things and you refuse to go through it again. I don't see it as being picky I see it as having standards for yourself. Example if you have had a gentleman/female that could not hold a job and nine times out of ten you were holding the house down, would you once again seek a person that is not secure within their employment? I say no. If you have had partners that are not focused on their future at this time in their life rightsideof50 would you feel comfortable with them? If on the rightsideof50 and they have very young children and your children are gone making you ready to travel do you take on their situation?
I'm not saying this is an age thing I'm saying it is an maturity thing and a way of life. Meaning knowing who and what you want.
What are the qualities you look for?